God has created both Male and female, both are their children. They are never biased to their children.
God never creates religion. We humans make a boundary based on our convenience and give them a name as religion. God loves each human with the same love and affection.
Generation gap:
1. In childhood, we think our family is the best, our father and mother are the best. We consider them best because we are looking at the world from their eyes. We don't think from our mind. They are our ideals
2. When we grow up, we start thinking from our mind. We find some conflict of thoughts with our parents. It is due to the generation gap. As per astrology, 8 years difference creates generation gap.
3. We start thinking, our parents are old and not able to understand me. Technology changes a lot and they are very backward. They can't understand me.
4. Environment change affects us a lot. Hormones change in our body. Body takes different shapes. Our likes and dislikes change with time. We are getting attracted towards love and sex. It is normal, don't think bad about it.
5. Attraction continues for a few days only, not very long. After a few days, you will find differences in thought due to different lifestyles.
Hormones effect:
1. From the generation gap, you can analyze the difference within yourself. Your thought process changes and you are making a difference from your own parents whom you like the most.
2. During adulthood, hormones effect change your mindset. Your thought processes are changed due to hormones. I have written about 'Universal law of attraction' earlier.
3. You need some partner for love. You want to share your thought process. You get attracted to other partners. Is it love? No.
4. Love means devotion not attraction. Love can be with bad looking, dumb, or any partner. It is due to their good behaviour, responsible work and good nature.
5. Attraction can be due to sex desire. It can be with any good or bad looking partner because sex don't see face they only see thirst of sex and desire.
6. If you have hunger for sex then it's not love. You can do it without marriage also if the other partner agrees.
7. Marriage needs respect from your partner. Understand them, care for them.
Religion boundary:
1. Every religion has their own pros and cons.
2. Due to attraction, you will marry, but after a few days you will find it difficult to adjust due to different cultures.
3. No one is perfect in the world. The person whom you thought of as an ideal, they start cheating you. It is not, he is not liking you. It is because he / she might be attracted to others.
4. Nowadays, lots of divorce and brutality is increasing in society. It is because people are not in love, they are in lust. Once their lust for one is over they move to another.
5. Some religions give you freedom, some have lots of restrictions.
Conclusion
1. First you judge yourself from the above points. You can see the thought process changes itself with time.
2. You start keeping distance from your own family and relatives due to hormones.
3. At a young age, you want to marry due to the influence of hormones, nothing else.
4. Don't run behind lust. Every good work needs time and effort.
5. Wait for a good time to marry. Never be in a hurry. Believe in your culture
Remedy
1. Start doing meditation, it will help you to increase your focus on creative things like study, job, etc.
2. It will sharpen your mind to think in a positive direction.
Astrology guidance:
1. Rahu is an important planet for marriage. It represents a foreign element. For marriage, we have to live with foreign element (with unknown).
2. Problem of Rahu can be solved by respecting or worshiping your grandfather or people like your grandfather.
3. You can also clean temples, houses or any dirty thing.
4. Give sugar, jaggery or sweets to an ant every day.
5. Marriage also depends on 7th house, 7th house lord, maha dasha, antar dasha and many more.
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